Decide on and meet with your officiant to discuss ceremony structure and any religious requirements (such as counseling).
Waiting to see which religion is the the hottest by the time our wedding comes about

Brides: Decide on the bridesmaid dresses.
Need to see if bridesmaids kiss my butt enough before I decide to put them in dresses that they don't hate

Book a baker, choose your wedding cake design, and send a deposit.
Trying to find a baker who can re-create a flavor I invented called "Claire"

Book ceremony musicians and send deposit.
Am still trying to decide whether a marching band is 'too much'

Start working on your invitation wording and design.Trying to figure out how many four-letter words we can fit on the card